RUTE AGULHAS

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Estatuto de mulher

dona do mundo

A recente sugestão da criação do “estatuto de mulher dona de casa” significa, por si só,  um retrocesso de décadas na forma como o papel dos homens e das mulheres tem vindo a ser concetualizado em Portugal. Constitui uma ofensa para as mulheres, mas também para os homens.

𝖰𝗎𝖾 𝖺 𝗆𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗇𝗂𝖽𝖺𝖽𝖾 𝖾𝗌𝗍𝖺́ 𝖺𝗌𝗌𝗈𝖼𝗂𝖺𝖽𝖺 𝖺̀𝗌 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗌, 𝗂𝗌𝗌𝗈 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈 𝗌𝖾 𝗊𝗎𝖾𝗌𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇𝖺. 𝖳𝖺𝗅 𝖼𝗈𝗆𝗈 𝖺 𝗉𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗇𝗂𝖽𝖺𝖽𝖾 𝖾𝗌𝗍𝖺́ 𝖺𝗌𝗌𝗈𝖼𝗂𝖺𝖽𝖺 𝖺𝗈𝗌 𝗁𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗌. 𝖤 𝖾́ 𝗉𝗈𝗋 𝖼𝖺𝗋𝗋𝖾𝗀𝖺𝗋 𝗇𝗈 𝗏𝖾𝗇𝗍𝗋𝖾 𝗎𝗆 𝖻𝖾𝖻𝖾́ 𝖽𝗎𝗋𝖺𝗇𝗍𝖾 𝗇𝗈𝗏𝖾 𝗆𝖾𝗌𝖾𝗌 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝖺 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝖾́, 𝗇𝖾𝖼𝖾𝗌𝗌𝖺𝗋𝗂𝖺𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗍𝖾, 𝗆𝖺𝗂𝗌 𝖼𝖺𝗉𝖺𝗓 𝖾 𝖼𝗈𝗆𝗉𝖾𝗍𝖾𝗇𝗍𝖾 𝗉𝖺𝗋𝖺 𝖼𝗎𝗂𝖽𝖺𝗋 𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝖿𝗂𝗅𝗁𝗈𝗌? 𝖠 𝗋𝖾𝗌𝗉𝗈𝗌𝗍𝖺 𝖾́ 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈, 𝗈𝗎 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈 𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗂́𝖺𝗆𝗈𝗌 𝖾𝗆 𝖯𝗈𝗋𝗍𝗎𝗀𝖺𝗅 (𝖾 𝗇𝗈 𝗆𝗎𝗇𝖽𝗈) 𝖺𝗌 𝗉𝗋𝖾𝗏𝖺𝗅𝖾̂𝗇𝖼𝗂𝖺𝗌 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗍𝖾𝗆𝗈𝗌, 𝗋𝖾𝗅𝖺𝗍𝗂𝗏𝖺𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗍𝖾 𝖺̀ 𝗇𝖾𝗀𝗅𝗂𝗀𝖾̂𝗇𝖼𝗂𝖺 𝖾 𝖺𝗈𝗌 𝗆𝖺𝗎𝗌-𝗍𝗋𝖺𝗍𝗈𝗌 𝗌𝗈𝖻𝗋𝖾 𝖼𝗋𝗂𝖺𝗇𝖼̧𝖺𝗌, 𝖺𝖼𝗂𝗆𝖺 𝖽𝖾 𝗍𝗎𝖽𝗈 𝗉𝖾𝗋𝗉𝖾𝗍𝗋𝖺𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝗉𝖾𝗅𝖺𝗌 𝖿𝗂𝗀𝗎𝗋𝖺𝗌 𝗆𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗇𝖺𝗌. 𝖮 𝖺𝗆𝗈𝗋 𝗆𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗇𝗈 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈 𝖾́ 𝗂𝗇𝖺𝗍𝗈, 𝗍𝖺𝗅 𝖼𝗈𝗆𝗈 𝗂𝗇𝖺𝗍𝗈 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈 𝖾́ 𝗈 𝖺𝗆𝗈𝗋 𝗉𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗇𝗈. 𝖢𝗈𝗇𝗌𝗍𝗋𝗈𝖾𝗆-𝗌𝖾 𝖺𝗆𝖻𝗈𝗌 𝗇𝖺 𝗋𝖾𝗅𝖺𝖼̧𝖺̃𝗈 𝖼𝗈𝗆 𝗈𝗌 𝖿𝗂𝗅𝗁𝗈𝗌. 𝖥𝖺𝗅𝖺𝗆𝗈𝗌, 𝗉𝗈𝗋𝗍𝖺𝗇𝗍𝗈, 𝖽𝖾 𝗎𝗆 𝗅𝖺𝖼̧𝗈 𝖺𝖿𝖾𝗍𝗂𝗏𝗈 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗉𝗋𝖾𝖼𝗂𝗌𝖺 𝖽𝖾 𝗍𝖾𝗆𝗉𝗈 𝖾 𝖽𝖾 𝖾𝗇𝗏𝗈𝗅𝗏𝗂𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗍𝗈.

𝖠𝗌𝗌𝗂𝗆, 𝖽𝖺 𝗆𝖾𝗌𝗆𝖺 𝖿𝗈𝗋𝗆𝖺 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝖺𝗌 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗌 𝗉𝗈𝖽𝖾𝗆 𝗌𝖾𝗋 𝖼𝖺𝗉𝖺𝗓𝖾𝗌 𝖽𝖾 𝖽𝖾𝗌𝖾𝗆𝗉𝖾𝗇𝗁𝖺𝗋 𝖼𝗈𝗆 𝖻𝗋𝗂𝗈 𝖺𝗌 𝗍𝖺𝗋𝖾𝖿𝖺𝗌 𝖽𝖾 𝖼𝖺𝗌𝖺 𝖾 𝖼𝗎𝗂𝖽𝖺𝗋 𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝖿𝗂𝗅𝗁𝗈𝗌, 𝗍𝖺𝗆𝖻𝖾́𝗆 𝗈𝗌 𝗉𝖺𝗂𝗌 (𝗁𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗌) 𝗈 𝗉𝗈𝖽𝖾𝗆 𝖿𝖺𝗓𝖾𝗋. 𝖯𝗈𝗂𝗌 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈 𝗌𝖾 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗁𝖾𝖼𝖾 𝗎𝗆 𝗊𝗎𝖺𝗅𝗊𝗎𝖾𝗋 𝗀𝖾𝗇𝖾 𝗉𝖺𝗋𝖺 𝗌𝖾 𝗌𝖾𝗋 “𝖽𝗈𝗇𝖺 𝖽𝖾 𝖼𝖺𝗌𝖺”, 𝖾𝗑𝖼𝗅𝗎𝗌𝗂𝗏𝗈 𝖽𝖾 𝗊𝗎𝖾𝗆 𝗇𝖺𝗌𝖼𝖾 𝖼𝗈𝗆 𝗎𝗆 𝗎́𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗈 𝖾 𝗎𝗆𝖺 𝗏𝖺𝗀𝗂𝗇𝖺.

𝖠𝗌 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗌 𝗉𝗈𝖽𝖾𝗆 𝗈𝗉𝗍𝖺𝗋 𝗉𝗈𝗋 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈 𝗍𝗋𝖺𝖻𝖺𝗅𝗁𝖺𝗋 𝖾 𝖿𝗂𝖼𝖺𝗋 𝖾𝗆 𝖼𝖺𝗌𝖺 𝖺 𝖼𝗎𝗂𝖽𝖺𝗋 𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝖿𝗂𝗅𝗁𝗈𝗌. 𝖤́ 𝗎𝗆 𝖽𝗂𝗋𝖾𝗂𝗍𝗈 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗍𝖾̂𝗆 - 𝗉𝖾𝗇𝗌𝖺𝗋 𝖽𝖾 𝖿𝗈𝗋𝗆𝖺 𝖼𝗋𝗂́𝗍𝗂𝖼𝖺 𝖾 𝖾𝖿𝖾𝗍𝗎𝖺𝗋 𝖾𝗌𝖼𝗈𝗅𝗁𝖺𝗌 𝖼𝗈𝗆 𝖺𝗌 𝗊𝗎𝖺𝗂𝗌 𝗌𝖾 𝗌𝗂𝗇𝗍𝖺𝗆 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝖿𝗈𝗋𝗍𝖺́𝗏𝖾𝗂𝗌.

𝖤 𝗈𝗌 𝗁𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗌 𝗍𝖺𝗆𝖻𝖾́𝗆.

𝖠𝗌 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗌 𝗌𝖺𝖻𝖾𝗆 𝗅𝗂𝗆𝗉𝖺𝗋 𝗈 𝗉𝗈́, 𝖼𝗈𝗓𝗂𝗇𝗁𝖺𝗋 𝖺𝗋𝗋𝗈𝗓 𝖾 𝗉𝗈̂𝗋 𝗎𝗆𝖺 𝗆𝖺́𝗊𝗎𝗂𝗇𝖺 𝖽𝖾 𝗋𝗈𝗎𝗉𝖺 𝖺 𝗅𝖺𝗏𝖺𝗋.

𝖮𝗌 𝗁𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗌 𝗍𝖺𝗆𝖻𝖾́𝗆.

𝖤 𝖺𝗌 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗌 𝗉𝗈𝖽𝖾𝗆 𝗍𝖺𝗆𝖻𝖾́𝗆 𝗈𝗉𝗍𝖺𝗋 𝗉𝗈𝗋 𝗍𝗋𝖺𝖻𝖺𝗅𝗁𝖺𝗋 𝖿𝗈𝗋𝖺 𝖽𝖾 𝖼𝖺𝗌𝖺 𝖾 𝖾𝗊𝗎𝗂𝗅𝗂𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗋 𝖺 𝗏𝗂𝖽𝖺 𝖿𝖺𝗆𝗂𝗅𝗂𝖺𝗋 𝖾 𝖺 𝗉𝗋𝗈𝖿𝗂𝗌𝗌𝗂𝗈𝗇𝖺𝗅. 𝖲𝖾 𝖾́ 𝖿𝖺́𝖼𝗂𝗅? 𝖭𝖺̃𝗈, 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈 𝖾́. 𝖲𝖺𝖻𝖾𝗆𝗈𝗌 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝖺𝗌 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗌 𝗌𝖺̃𝗈 𝗆𝖺𝗂𝗌 𝗌𝗈𝖻𝗋𝖾𝖼𝖺𝗋𝗋𝖾𝗀𝖺𝖽𝖺𝗌 𝖼𝗈𝗆 𝖺𝗌 𝗍𝖺𝗋𝖾𝖿𝖺𝗌 𝖽𝗈𝗆𝖾́𝗌𝗍𝗂𝖼𝖺𝗌 𝖽𝗈 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗈𝗌 𝗁𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗌. 𝖥𝖺𝖼𝖾 𝖺 𝗂𝗌𝗍𝗈, 𝖺𝗌 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗌 𝗇𝖺̃𝗈 𝗉𝖾𝖽𝖾𝗆 𝖺𝗂𝗇𝖽𝖺 𝗆𝖺𝗂𝗌 𝗍𝖺𝗋𝖾𝖿𝖺𝗌 𝖽𝗈𝗆𝖾́𝗌𝗍𝗂𝖼𝖺𝗌, 𝗉𝗈𝗋𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝖺𝗉𝖾𝗇𝖺𝗌 𝖾𝗅𝖺𝗌 𝖺𝗌 𝗌𝖺𝖻𝖾𝗆 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗓𝖺𝗋. 𝖯𝖾𝖽𝖾𝗆, 𝗌𝗂𝗆, 𝗆𝖺𝗂𝗈𝗋 𝗂𝗀𝗎𝖺𝗅𝖽𝖺𝖽𝖾 𝗇𝖺 𝗀𝖾𝗌𝗍𝖺̃𝗈 𝖽𝗈 𝖾𝗌𝗉𝖺𝖼̧𝗈 𝗉𝗋𝗂𝗏𝖺𝖽𝗈. 𝖤 𝗈𝗌 𝗁𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗌 𝖺𝗀𝗋𝖺𝖽𝖾𝖼𝖾𝗆, 𝖾𝗌𝗉𝖾𝖼𝗂𝖺𝗅𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗍𝖾 𝗌𝖾 𝗉𝖾𝗇𝗌𝖺𝗋𝗆𝗈𝗌 𝗇𝗈𝗌 𝖼𝗎𝗂𝖽𝖺𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝖽𝖺𝗌 𝖼𝗋𝗂𝖺𝗇𝖼̧𝖺𝗌, 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗈𝗌 𝗉𝖺𝗂𝗌 𝗋𝖾𝖼𝗅𝖺𝗆𝖺𝗆 (𝖾 𝖻𝖾𝗆) 𝖼𝖺𝖽𝖺 𝗏𝖾𝗓 𝗆𝖺𝗂𝗌.

𝖤 𝖾́ 𝖾𝗌𝗍𝖺 𝗆𝖾𝗌𝗆𝖺 𝗂𝗀𝗎𝖺𝗅𝖽𝖺𝖽𝖾 𝗇𝗈 𝖾𝗌𝗉𝖺𝖼̧𝗈 𝗉𝗋𝗂𝗏𝖺𝖽𝗈 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗌𝖾 𝗋𝖾𝖼𝗅𝖺𝗆𝖺, 𝗍𝖺𝗆𝖻𝖾́𝗆, 𝗇𝗈 𝖽𝗈𝗆𝗂́𝗇𝗂𝗈 𝗉𝗎́𝖻𝗅𝗂𝖼𝗈. 𝖰𝗎𝖾 𝗁𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗌 𝖾 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗌 𝗉𝗈𝗌𝗌𝖺𝗆 𝖾𝗌𝖼𝗈𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝖺 𝖼𝖺𝗋𝗋𝖾𝗂𝗋𝖺 𝗉𝗋𝗈𝖿𝗂𝗌𝗌𝗂𝗈𝗇𝖺𝗅 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝖻𝖾𝗆 𝖾𝗇𝗍𝖾𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗋𝖾𝗆, 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗌𝖾𝗃𝖺𝗆 𝗂𝗀𝗎𝖺𝗅𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗍𝖾 𝗋𝖾𝗆𝗎𝗇𝖾𝗋𝖺𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝖾 𝗋𝖾𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗁𝖾𝖼𝗂𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝖾 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗉𝗈𝗌𝗌𝖺𝗆, 𝖺𝗆𝖻𝗈𝗌, 𝗌𝖾 𝖺𝗌𝗌𝗂𝗆 𝖽𝖾𝗌𝖾𝗃𝖺𝗋𝖾𝗆, 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗊𝗎𝗂𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗋 𝗈 𝗆𝗎𝗇𝖽𝗈. 𝖭𝖺 𝗉𝖾𝗋𝗌𝗉𝖾𝗍𝗂𝗏𝖺 𝖽𝖺𝗌 𝖼𝗋𝗂𝖺𝗇𝖼̧𝖺𝗌, 𝗉𝗈𝖽𝖾𝗆𝗈𝗌 𝖺𝗂𝗇𝖽𝖺 𝖺𝖿𝗂𝗋𝗆𝖺𝗋 𝗊𝗎𝖾 𝗈𝗌 𝗌𝖾𝗎𝗌 𝖽𝗂𝗋𝖾𝗂𝗍𝗈𝗌 𝖺𝗉𝖾𝗇𝖺𝗌 𝗉𝗈𝖽𝖾𝗆 𝗌𝖾𝗋 𝗌𝖺𝗅𝗏𝖺𝗀𝗎𝖺𝗋𝖽𝖺𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝗌𝖾 𝖺𝗆𝖻𝗈𝗌 𝗈𝗌 𝗉𝖺𝗂𝗌 𝗏𝗂𝗋𝖾𝗆 𝗈𝗌 𝗌𝖾𝗎𝗌 𝖽𝗂𝗋𝖾𝗂𝗍𝗈𝗌 𝖺𝗌𝗌𝖾𝗀𝗎𝗋𝖺𝖽𝗈𝗌, 𝖾𝗆 𝖼𝖺𝗌𝖺 𝖾 𝗇𝗈 𝗍𝗋𝖺𝖻𝖺𝗅𝗁𝗈.

𝖱𝖾𝖼𝗅𝖺𝗆𝖺𝗆𝗈𝗌, 𝗉𝗈𝗋𝗍𝖺𝗇𝗍𝗈, 𝗈 “𝖾𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗍𝗎𝗍𝗈 𝖽𝖾 𝗆𝗎𝗅𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝖽𝗈𝗇𝖺 𝖽𝗈 𝗆𝗎𝗇𝖽𝗈”, 𝖾𝗑𝗍𝖾𝗇𝗌𝗂́𝗏𝖾𝗅 𝖺 𝗍𝗈𝖽𝗈𝗌 𝗈𝗌 𝗁𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗌.

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IN "DIÁRIO DE NOTÍCIAS" -18/04/24.